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The Illusion of the Imaginary Future: Why “Someday” Will Never Come — and Why You Must Start Now

Many people postpone their dreams by believing in an imaginary future where they’ll magically feel ready. This CLG Lifestyle article exposes the illusion of “someday,” explains the psychology and spirituality behind delay, and teaches why the only real moment for transformation is now.


This has nothing to do with the power of visualization and imagining a better future. Our society was built on the visions, imaginations and dreams of people who believed. But with their belief came the “works” to accommodate their manifestations…..read on.

Most people don’t fail because they lack talent.
They fail because they keep believing in a future that doesn’t exist — an imaginary day where everything will magically align and they’ll finally begin living the life they dream of.

This future feels comforting.
It feels safe.
It feels like hope.

But it is an illusion — a spiritual and psychological trap designed to keep you stagnant, comfortable, and controlled.

The enemy doesn’t have to destroy you.
He only has to convince you to wait.

Delay is the silent assassin of destiny.

And until you understand this, you will continue pushing your dreams into a fictional tomorrow that never arrives.


The Imaginary Future: A Mental Escape From the Present

Everybody has an image in their mind of a future version of themselves:

  • more disciplined
  • more focused
  • more motivated
  • more confident
  • more productive
  • more financially stable
  • more spiritual
  • more successful
  • more money…..

And because that image feels inspiring…
we mistake thought for progress.

We mistake intention for action.
We mistake visualization for execution.

This imaginary version of yourself becomes a psychological escape — a place where you always “plan” but never act.

It’s the mind saying:
“Someday I will.”
“Someday I’m gonna start.”
“Someday things will be better.”
“Someday I’ll be ready.”

But “someday” is not a date.
It is a trap.


Why We Create Imaginary Futures

The imaginary future exists because:

1. The present feels uncomfortable

Starting now means confronting:

  • fear
  • self-doubt
  • imperfection
  • lack of experience
  • emotional wounds

So the mind builds a fantasy where those issues magically disappear.

2. Starting feels overwhelming

Your mind says:
“I need more time.”
“I need more clarity.”
“I need more confirmation.”

But this is avoidance dressed as planning.

3. Trauma creates ‘delay programming’

Growing up in chaos teaches you:

  • don’t take risks
  • don’t stand out
  • don’t try yet
  • stay safe
  • wait for permission

This becomes procrastination disguised as wisdom.

4. Fear creates false logic

Fear convinces you that:

  • starting now is too risky
  • the conditions aren’t right
  • you’re not ready

But the truth is…
you only become ready after you start.


The Spiritual Reality: The Future Does Not Exist Yet

Scripture teaches:
“Take no thought for tomorrow.”
Because tomorrow is not promised.

There is only:

  • the past (memory)
  • the future (imagination)
  • the present (decision)

God works in NOW.
Your transformation happens in NOW.
Your obedience is tested in NOW.
Your breakthrough begins in NOW.

You do not meet destiny in the future.
You meet destiny in the decision.


Why Waiting Is More Dangerous Than Failing

Every moment you delay:

  • your confidence weakens
  • your clarity fades
  • your momentum dies
  • your desire shrinks
  • your passion cools
  • your calling gets quieter
  • your inner critic gets louder

Delayed action becomes delayed identity.

If you do not practice becoming the next version of yourself now,
your brain never rewires to support that identity later.

Waiting is not neutral — it is destructive.


The Brain Believes What You Do, Not What You Think

Your mind rewires itself through ACTION.
Neural pathways form from repetition, not intention.

That means:

  • the more you delay, the more your brain learns to delay
  • the more you procrastinate, the more natural procrastination feels
  • the more you wait for the “perfect moment,” the more waiting becomes your lifestyle

Identity is built by behavior, not imagination.

If you want to become the man you see in your vision,
you must act like him today, not someday.


The Secret Truth: You Don’t Need More Time — You Need More Courage

The reason people wait is not time.
It is fear.

Fear of:

  • failing
  • succeeding
  • being seen
  • being judged
  • changing
  • leaving people behind
  • holding yourself accountable

Your imaginary future is a safe haven where you can “be great” without facing any risk.

But greatness is not built in comfort — it is built in courage.

God does not give clarity in advance.
He gives clarity after obedience.


The Freedom Starts When You Accept This One Truth

You will NEVER feel fully ready.
You will only feel called.

And calling requires action.

Not next month.
Not next season.
Not next year.

Today.

Because today is the only day to get started “as soon as possible.”


How to Break the Illusion and Start NOW

Here is the path to freedom:

1. Make ONE bold decision today

A phone call
A chapter
A study session
A post
A workout
A prayer
A start

2. Shrink your goals into steps, not outcomes

Big visions.
Small actions.
Daily wins.

3. Attach your dream to your identity

Say:
“This is who I am now.”
Not:
“This is who I hope to become someday.”

4. Eliminate the fantasy of perfect timing

Conditions don’t create success — commitment does.

5. Build momentum through consistency

Consistency destroys fear.
Momentum destroys procrastination.

6. Let obedience lead you

Like Joshua at Jericho, your walls fall through:

  • obedience
  • discipline
  • small steps
  • daily walking
  • silence
  • faith in action

Your future opens when you move.


The Future Is Not Coming — YOU Are Becoming

The life you want will not appear out of nowhere.
It will emerge from your choices — especially the ones you make today.

Stop waiting for a version of yourself that doesn’t exist yet.
Start becoming the version God intended when He gave you the desire.

The imaginary future is not your destiny.
It is a distraction.

Your power is here.
Your breakthrough is here.
Your moment is here.
Your life is here.

Start now.

Blessings & Strength,
Corwin L Guilliams
Founder/CLG Lifestyle

CLG Lifestyle is more than a brand — it is a kingdom-driven movement rooted in the transformation of the whole man. Built on the pillars of faith, family, forgiveness, fitness, fashion, relationships, self and community development, mindset, and God-given identity and purpose, CLG Lifestyle exists to develop men from the inside out.

We believe that every man is called to rise — to lead himself first, then his family, and ultimately his community. But that rise requires alignment with God, discipline in character, and intentional growth in every area of life.

At CLG Lifestyle, we teach men to build:

• Faith

as the foundation of strength, clarity, and direction.

• Family

as the first ministry and the center of a man’s legacy.

• Forgiveness

as the key to emotional freedom, healing, and forward movement.

• Fitness

as discipline for the body, sharpening the mind and spirit.

• Fashion

as presentation — because kings carry themselves with excellence.

• Relationships

as kingdom connections built on honor, trust, and purpose.

• Self & Community Development

as a commitment to personal growth and the upliftment of those around us.

• Mindset

as the internal engine that shapes habits, decisions, and outcomes.

• God-Given Identity & Purpose

as the ultimate calling that defines a man’s path and destiny.

CLG Lifestyle calls men to rise above mediocrity, break negative cycles, grow in emotional and spiritual maturity, and become disciplined leaders in every arena of life. We believe that a man grounded in faith and aligned with his God-given identity becomes unstoppable — not because life gets easier, but because he becomes stronger.

This brand is for the man who is evolving.
For the man who is rebuilding.
For the man who chooses responsibility over excuses.
For the man who wants to honor God, lead his family, heal from his past, strengthen his body, elevate his presentation, and contribute to his community.

CLG Lifestyle isn’t just motivation.
It isn’t just content.
It isn’t even just lifestyle.

It is a standard — a blueprint for becoming the man God designed you to be.

Welcome to CLG Lifestyle,
Where Kingdom Identity Becomes Your Earthly Reality.

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