It’s ONLY a matter of time BEFORE their TRUE feelings about you is EXPOSED.
DON’T let their “niceness,” or “friendliness” fool you.
And if you’ve been “got” or “gotten” several times- over and over and over again-because of your GENUINE kindness- Here is your KEY!
The KEY- so you won’t end up in those situations AGAIN, AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN, because of a simpleton mindset.
The KEY is to Cook’em in that crockpot SLOWLY.
Feed them with a long spoon as the Caribbean proverbs says.
Be PATIENT.
Everything worth investing in deserves a level of patience that goes above and beyond average.
If a person has pure intentions with regards to desiring to know you- they will exhibit the freedom God gives all of us to CHOOSE for our own advantage/benefit-what is good for us.
They won’t get mad,
Impatient,
Salty
Vindictive.
Manipulative
Befriend the same people they tried to warn you about……#mhmm
Or simply turn into a monster-because you decide to be JUDICIOUS about who and what you let into your life.
“Cook’em” until those “dead bones” fall of your “meat”. Only the most valuable will remain for a heart meal. Aka a heart life..
This includes people, places and things. NOTHING or NOONE should force themselves upon you- or make you feel “some type of way” because YOUR SPIRIT is telling you to keep them at a distance.
Don’t you recognize yet that every time you DISOBEYED your INNER MAN- you ended up at the losing end?
When will you learn?
When will you learn to Love- self?
When will you learn to trust your God-given navigation system to DISCERN what is for you and what is from God and what is from the enemy?
How many lessons do you need?
Hopefully no more in this case- so you can move on to bigger, better and NEW experiences…
Don’t be afraid to CHOOSE what is good for you- even when it goes against cultural/social norms/expectations.
CLG LIFESTYLE 
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